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Tuesday, January 31, 2006 

Spoiled ??????

I have been call spoiled on occasion. Let me explain…


Growing up in a family of 8 there isn’t very much room for one to be spoiled but I have always been my father’s favorite and there is nothing that he wouldn’t do for me. Flash-forward to my teenage years I never really asked my parents for much but when I did they made sure I got it.


When I met my husband he was always generous with his time and his money… I never asked for anything he just wanted to give… to this day what ever I want he pretty much gives me.

Since my life has been a lot of "getting what I want" or “ having things my way” I have grown accustom to that. Things not going the way I want them to can be very frustrating… Does that make me spoiled?


Some would say yes… I say STOP HATING. LOL. I do all I can for the people in my life and I think they try to do the same….

What do you think?

Are you spoiled?



Me? Spoiled?? Hell NAW!!

Only child, raised by my daddy...I USE to be spoiled...but I am a grown ass woman now..too old to be spoiled!!! LOL

*You can use that line if you like....it's the spoiled girl motto...it's the I-ain't-spoiled-even-though-I-really-am! statement*

I used to be spoiled. I was the youngest child and the only one not to cause any trouble. Never asked for much, but got a lot. Unfortunately that !@#$# stopped when I graduated from college. Then I had a girlfriend who spoiled me rotten, but that ended when another man got her pregnant. Now the only person spoiling me is me.

I am told that yes I am spoiled, but what is wrong with wanting things your way?!?! I find I go out of my way for others....well sometimes anyway. *smile*

And no I don't think you are spoiled at all!

~Smooches~

Yeah, you're spoiled. LOL Nothing wrong with that. I believe there is a difference between spoiled and spoiled rotten.

Spoiled: You're accustomed to getting what you want, but you don't act a fool when you can't have your way. You don't feel it's all about you, you go out of your way to do things for others and you're not afraid to work.
Spoiled Rotten: You just ain't good for nothing. Nobody can count on you for anything, because it's always all about you. You are accustomed to getting what you want and if things don't go your way, you have a damn fit!

I know I'm spoiled. My parents pretty much gave me what I wanted growing up. I never asked for much, but whatever I wanted, I was given. I was a good kid, so they felt no need not to do so, since they could afford it.

Now, as an adult, I spoil myself. I'm also used to being spolied by my men. Friends and relatives spoil me, too. I aint ashamed of it! LOL

I have been called spoiled, but I don't think I am spoiled. Am I Nicky?

Anyway MSNHIM, you just need to learn not to go into spoil mode with the people who don't spoil you? Got it?

I am spoiled ROTTEN (by my mom)to the 10th power....lol and when my dad was alive it was to the 20th power....ROFLMAO

@ MCM I don't think your spoiled. But you know I am "tutu"LOL

Best regards from NY!
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