Tuesday, February 28, 2006 

Sorry - just a meme

I’ve been feeling a little under the weather these past few days and , Yes I am taking the easyway out with a meme but at least you have something to read!

1} Last thing you burned while attempting to cook?
Cake... I forgot about it.

2} Describe yourself in three “s” words:
Sweet, Sassy, Stubborn.

3} How long does it take you to get ready for your day?
an hour more or less.

4} Favorite place to blow $50?
Nine West. I looooove shoes

5} How many people have you thought were “the one”?

6} What is something that turns you off about your crush?

7} What kind of car do you drive?

8} What’s in your CD player/ipod right now?
A little bit of evrything.

9} What celebrity would you have coffee with?

10} What celebrity would you NOT have coffee with?
Tom Cruise - Im soooo sick of him.

11} What kind of toothpaste do you use?
Colgate with the breath strips

12} What time do you go to bed?

13} Last movie you saw?
Hoodwinked. What? I have kids.

14} Last TV show you watched?
Grey's Anatomy

15} Who is your best friend?
Nicky & J

16} Who in your family do you best get along with?
My Mom.

17} Who do you have a crush on?
I take the 5th on this.

18} What time is it right now?

19} Are you planning a vacation/travel?
Miami in April.

20} When/Where was the last time you traveled?
Puerto Rico last year.

21} How many times have you been in love?

22} How old will you be in 10 years?

23} Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
Hopefully living happily in my own Home.

24} Sinful snacking weakness?
Most Desserts.

25} Rollercoasters?
Hell Yeah.

26} Ever run out of gas?

27} Ever been on a train?
Only when I have to.

28} Ever been on a blind date?

29} Ever been to Europe?

30} What would you do if you could be the opposite sex for one day?
Pee Standing up. LOL

31} Would you tell anyone it was really you?

32} Ever been arrested?

33} Have a crush on anyone you work with?
Hell NO!!!!!!!!

34} What is something you believe in?
Love at first sight.

35} What is something you fear?
Loosing a child.

36} Big or smaller?

37} What is the worst physical or emotional pain you have ever experienced?
I rather not say.

38} What is your favorite television show?
Grey's Anatomy

39} Ever photoshopped yourself to look better in a picture?
I didnt even know you could do that?

40} Tell us something about your childhood.
I was a dancer from the time I was 8 til I was 14

41} What would it cost for you to flash the person next to you?
My Boss is a perv.... but How much you offering? LOL

42} Best time to catch you in a good mood?

43} If you could be anywhere right now, where would it be?
Home in bed

44} Most prized possession?
My Kids.. I know their not possesions but they are mine.

45} Would you ever sell it/how much?
Hell NO!!!!!!!!!!!!

46} What is one of your bad habits?
I eat when Im under stress/depressed.

47} Favorite kind of ice cream?
Butter Pecan.

48} Coolest thing that happened today?
Im still waiting for it...

49} What’s your favorite part of a Friday?
Happy Hour!!! LOL

50} What would make you most happy right now?
To go back to bed.

Thursday, February 23, 2006 

More SEX

Is it me or do you notice that entering your thirties your brain tends to sway to and from SEX?Thinking about it, doing it, remembering it, reading about it….. It seems to be everywhere. I’ve always enjoyed sex but it wasn’t something that I put much thought into unless I was actually engaging in the act but is seem that now its all I think about.

* I can’t even believe I just said that*

I heard when you hit your thirty’s or your “dirty thirty’s” as some call it you just want it all the time and I’m starting to think there may be some truth to that. I know most men, with the exception of some, want it all the time but is this the same case for women? Have you seen a shift in your sexual appetite as you get older?

Tuesday, February 21, 2006 


I was having this conversation with one of my friends yesterday. If you had the body would you be a stripper? Her answer was a definitive NO…. I think she was shock and surprised by my answer.

If I had no other means of supporting myself, I’d do it. Now let me explain. Growing up I was taught that strippers were whores and that your suppose to love yourself and not flaunt all you got on stage. For the most part I thought this to be true but as I’ve gotten older and have met people that have been strippers at some point in there lives my opinion of this “profession” has change quite a bit. Yes there are some women who just like showing of there body and that’s why they do it but there are many that do it cause they have a need for fast cash. Some have children that they are supporting, some are putting themselves through college and though most people would say they could be doing other things, they are taking care of themselves with out the help of others including the GOVERNMENT. I can appreciate that.

Everyone has an opinion about strippers but unless you’ve walk in there “stilettos” I don’t think it’s our place to judge. Would I let my man go to a strip club…absolutely. I think women have the misconception that a strip club leads your man to cheat when the reality is if he is going to cheat he is going to do it anywhere.

Now do I like male strippers? ….. Hell No. I’m actually turned off by them but that’s just me but if my man decided he wanted to strip * hold on I am laughing at the image in my head* so be it.. so here we go

What are your feelings about Stripping/strippers?

Would you do it?

* I am still laughing at the image of my man strippin* ;-)

Thursday, February 16, 2006 

Skeletons in the closet

We all have them, that secret that if it ever got out would turn your world upside down…. Some people have many and keeping all that under wraps is work in its self. We all try not to think about it in the hopes that it will just “go away” but those bastards have the habit of coming out eventually and at the worse time.

So today’s question are

Do you have any skeletons in your closet?

Do you worry that they may get out?

If so how does that affect the rest of your life?

Wednesday, February 15, 2006 

Dinner and Jewelry and SEX.. Oh My

So last week my man took me to see the Lion King on Broadway as my Valentine’s gift. Which by the way was great if you haven’t seen it go see it. So he receive a ZALES catalog and we were flipping through the pages I saw a necklace and bracelet that I really liked but since he had already taken me out to the show and to dinner I wasn’t going to ask for another gift. Well yesterday before we went out to eat ( my treat of course) he hands me a bag and guess what’s inside….

Yeah you guessed it the necklace and the bracelet!!!! I was sooooo happy that after dinner I model the set for him wearing nothing else ala Kate Winslet in Titanic….. And you know what happened next. LOL. So all in all not the Valentine’s Day I’ve always dreamed of but pretty DAMN good!

How was your Valentine's Day??

Tuesday, February 14, 2006 

For you.....

For you …..

I want you to know that I cherish your friendship. I have shared things with you I would never with anyone else. I trust you.

Every night I fall asleep thinking of you, wondering how you are, if you're all right and if you think of me. I’ve been told that time heals everything. I've come to believe time just makes things a little easier to deal with.

I pray that you will accomplish your dreams with strength and pride. I want you to have the best of life. Please take care of yourself because I truly care for you.

Happy Vanetine’s Day


Happy Valentine's Day !!!!!!

In honor of valentines day I chose to list some of my favorite SLOW JAMS, most Old but some New…..

Very Special - Debra Laws

Sexual Healing - Marvin Gaye

Tender Love - Force M.D.'s

Come Go With Me - Teddy Pendergrass

Let Me Be Your Angel - Stacy Lattisaw

Fire And Desire - Rick James (W/ Teena Marie)

Between The Sheets - The Isley Bros.

Always And Forever - Heatwave

Silly - Deniece Williams

Love You Down - Ready for the World

What You Won't Do For Love - Bobby Caldwell

The Lady In My Life - Michael Jackson

Love T.K.O. - Teddy Pendergrass

Forever Mine - The O'Jays

Superstar - Luther Vandros

Soon As I Get Home - Babyface

The Secret Garden - Quincy Jones

If only for one night/creepin - Luther Vandross

A House Is Not A Home - Luther Vandross

You Put A Move On My Heart - Tamia

So Amazing - Luther Vandross

Given A Chance - Baby Face

Whatever You Want - Tony! Toni! Toné!

Kissing You - Keith Washington

Ribbon in the Sky - Intro

I'm Still In Love With You - Al Green

Let's Stay Together - Al Green

Here I Go Again - Force MD's

I Like It - DeBarge

All This Love - DeBarge

Time Will Reveal - DeBarge

Love Me In A Special Way - DeBarge

Is This The End - New Edition

Lets Chill - Guy

A Dream - DeBarge

At Last - Etta James

The Man I love - Etta James

This Is For The Lover In You - Shalamar

Make It Last Forever - Keith Sweat

I wanna to be your man - Zapp

Ebony Eyes - Rick James Featuring Smokey Robinson

In Your Eyes - Peter Gabriel

Scandalous - Prince

Where Will You Go - Babyface

A House Is Not A Home - Luther Vandross
Diary - Alicia Keys

Loving Me 4 Me - Christina Aguilera

Naked - Marques Houston

I cant Stop Loving You - Kem

Call My Name - Prince

Love Calls - Kem

I Wanna Know - Joe

Make You My Baby - Joe

Without You - Kem

Can You Handle It? - Usher

Cupid - 112

Missing You - Case

Officially Missing you - Tamia

Slowly - Syleena Johnson

Cross My Mind - Jill Scott

Take It From Here - Justin Timberlake

Love Will Be Waiting At Home - For Real

Sweet Lady -Tyrese

Lately - Tyrese

Dangerously In Love 2 - Beyoncé

So what are some of your favorites?

Friday, February 10, 2006 

Cheating -which is worse?

I had a conversation with some fellow bloggers at our last meet up and the topic came up. How serious is “emotional cheating”? When you bond with someone other than your spouse, and you share things that you may or may not share with your mate that’s considered “emotional cheating”, but is it really cheating….

Let say you never got physical with this person but you shared intimate thoughts and secrets, depending on someone other than your mate for emotional support is that cheating? If so whats worse finding out your mate had hot, sweaty sex with someone else or that they have a friend that knows stuff about them that you don’t?

What’s worse? Are you guilty of emotional cheating?

Thursday, February 09, 2006 

When its Over....

When is it over? Are we honest with ourselves when relationships fall apart?

I think everyone reaches a point where they know that the relationship isn’t working but many people stay for different reasons. Some stay for the children, others stay cause the relationship is comfortable and they don’t want to loose that but many stay cause they can’t bear the thought of hurting there partner, but is this healthy?

When your ready to walk away from a relationship how important are these factors in making your decision? How do you walk away?

Wednesday, February 08, 2006 


What do you consider a secret and can you keep one?

I follow a rule that anytime I am talking to one of my girls whatever is said is deem

Some people don’t feel this way. Some say “well she didn’t say it was a secret” but I say Did she have to? I think if you know your real friends you KNOW when something is a secret…..

Now the question is Do you ever tell? What if the secret is sooooo good would you risk telling someone?

We all say things about other people cause we think these two are never going to meet but what if they do? How do you know that the person you told the secret to isn’t going to “ Spill the Beans”?

Secrets, do you keep them….or are you guilty of saying to much?

Monday, February 06, 2006 

Good Girl/ Bad Girl

Growing up your taught that Good girls cross there legs, always say please and thank you and are very chaste and the Bad girls were the “ loose” girls, the easy girls ..... they were not the kind of women you wanted to be

Side Note:(talk about your double standard but that’s a whole other post)


Now it’s “a lady on the Street and a Freak in the sheets”

It seems that women need to live a life of duplicity. We are suppose to be Suzy homemaker by day and Sexy seductress at night. Is this really what men want?

Ladies, how do you feel about this?

Why don’t men live this double life?

On personal note, I like to think of myself as a “Good Girl” with “ Bad girl” tendencies but that’s just me. LOL

Thursday, February 02, 2006 

A confession

Ok I have a confession to make……..

I have been secretly watching “ The Flavor of love”…

* I cant believe I just said that* LOL

Yes I hate to admit it but I can’t help it. Its like a car wreck you just can’t look away. At first I would see the commercial and say “ I cant believe they’re wasting Money on that SHIT". Then one day there was nothing else on TV so I said "ok Im just gonna watch a few minutes"… I sat and watch the Whole thing and not just on episode, 3 back to back.

Now I think Flava Flave is the most dingy person I have every seen and there is no way you would catch me anywhere near him let alone fighting for his attention but the show its self is soooooo stupid its funny. These chicks, most of them decent looking, are fighting for this man…. WTF?

I know I shouldn’t watch it and its totally embarrassing but I think we all have something were a little embarrass to say we watch. Don’t you ?

Wednesday, February 01, 2006 

If I were.... MEME

If I were a ______ I would be??

Car: A sadan---- cause Im cute and reliable

Book: A romance novel--- cause I am VERY romantic

Movie: A thriller---cause you never know what to expect from me

Weather: A Sunny Day with no Clouds in the Sky (but only around 75-80F)---- cause who doesn’t like a sunny day

Drink: an Apple martini--- cause like me its sweet but if you have to much it can knock you on your ass

Ice Cream Flavor: Sorbet--- cause its sooth and sweet, like me. LOL

Song or Genre of Music: Smooth Jazz----Cause its very sensual like yours truly. LOL

Shoe: 3 inch stiletto--- Cause what is sexier that that

Food: Chinese food --- cause I fill you up but in 10 minutes you want more.

This was fun. I Tagg Everyone on my bloggroll and anyone reading this