Monday, May 15, 2006 

I need to get my head straight.

I'll be taking a short break for blogging..... to many things going on...... I need to get myself together.... I'll be back soon.

Take care

Thursday, May 11, 2006 

Would you past the ORAL exam ???????

I was going through my archives and I came (no pun intended LOL) to an old post entitled DOWN TOWN .

It made me think, how "good" are you ????

I know a lot of women love to have their man go down on them but do you go down on him? I believe in reciprocation so as long as you take care of me I will take care of you but there are many women that would disagree. Some women, like men think its nasty or disgusting or whatever but if your in a relationship with someone (I think this is something saved for someone your serious about) what’s the big deal?

How would you rate?

Would you past the oral?????????????????

Tuesday, May 09, 2006 

IT’S A BOY!!!!!!

It seems yours truly will be getting another child. Let me give you the back-story…..

My Older sister has been having a few problems with my 15-year-old nephew. To start He has had several problems with her new husband, He has a girlfriend that’s apparently bad news and he has taken to cursing out his mother. Now he has had a VERY rough childhood but there is never an excuse to disrespect his mother. And believe me I have made that clear to him and everyone else evolved but what my sister was going to do TO ME is never the answer.

Being that she had enough of my nephews crap she was going to put him in a boys home. So this being my nephew I just couldn’t let that happen….. I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I did nothing so of Course I offered to take him in once school is over at the end of June. {WHF?}

I’ve never had a teenager so I don’t know what to look forward to but I know that I couldn’t let her just give up on him. Well its been hard enough for me to digest that decision but it seems that now everyone else in my family has an opinion on how I should raise him (HOLD UP) I don’t remember anyone else stepping to the plate when he was going to be sent away, now that I agreed to keep him you want to tell me how to raise him…… if your ideas are sooooo good why didn’t YOU step to the plate with an offer to raise him????????????? Why is it always easy for others to tell YOU what you need to do???????????????

I Love my nephew and I really want to help but this may be a bit much for me. Wish me luck.

What would you have done?

PS. Any tips or advise on dealing with a teenager is much appreciated.

Friday, May 05, 2006 

Happy Cinco De Mayo!

Hey, lets celebrate like the Mexicans...... its time to get your drink on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, May 03, 2006 

Sex On Demand?

In any relationship there are months of free flowing sex and there are months were you experience droughts. For whatever the reason at some point you and your partner may not be sexually in sync. I have my moments when sex is all I think about (I would say the last few months, if you‘ve kept up with my blog) and then there are times when I don’t even want my husband in the same room with me let alone in my bed. Trying to get through these times is both difficult for him as well as for me…..

Today’s Question

When your in a relationship do you ever feel obligated to have sex? Would you have sex even if you weren’t in the mood?

Monday, May 01, 2006 

The Sounds of SEX

I had this conversation years ago with a friend of mine. She was in her first serious relationship and the topic of being VOCAL during sex came up. It seems her man was asking the standards “does it feel good?”- "do you like that? “ etc. I think all of this kind of caught her of guard cause she was a little confused. LOL

It made me think .... I can be pretty vocal during sex. Now I’m not saying that I am screaming at the top if lungs(that only happened a few times LOL) but when its right I want to let my man know that I am enjoying what he’s doing and I love to have it reciprocated …. Who doesn’t want to know your doing your thang!!!! There is nothing worse than "quite sex". That's only OK when your trying to slip in a "quickie" at your parents house. LMAO........

Now today’s question is where do you draw the line?

For me I like a little “dirty talk” but with limits. Any attempt to try and degrade me will get your shit in a vice grip the “jaws of life” couldn’t help you out off, but that’s just me.

How vocal are you in bed? What are your limits?