Thursday, March 30, 2006 

Im not “Friendly Phil”

I get a lot a flack cause people think that I “think Im the shit”. They assume that because when I get to my block, although I have lived there most of my life. I don’t really talk to the people that live in the building or even in the area. My husband or “Friendly Phil” as I like to call him says hi and talks to everybody. If were walking out our building and we have to pass 10 people on the way out he will say Hi to 10 people, I may say hi to 1. That doesn’t mean that I “think Im the shit” it just means that I am not overly friendly with people that I don’t really know.

Now on to Friendly Phil… it urks me to no end that every time we are trying to go somewhere we bump into someone he knows and now he has to have the 30min conversation! Cant you just say Hi and keep it moving?

Another “Friendly Phil" habit I hate is how when ever we see a woman he knows he always greets the woman with “ Hey baby how you doing? WTF????????

The only “Baby” you have is me (or one of your daughters) Don’t be getting these chicks comfortable with that whole “Baby” bullshit cause they don’t realize your just being “Friendly Phil” they think “oh he wants some of thisWRONG BIACH!!! He’s just to fucking friendly .

So todays questions are

Have you ever been accused of “ thinking you’re the shit”?

Do you have a “friendly Phil” in your life and how to do deal with it?

Tuesday, March 28, 2006 


Ok so on Friday we got together with some bloggers and one of my blogger buddies had a male friend with her who told us he was into S&M. Now I’m curious about things I’ve heard of but haven’t been exposed so of course I had a lot of questions.

How did you get into S&M?
How long have you been doing this?
What are some of the things you do?

So anyway we got into details and he goes on to give examples of the stuff he’s done and I notice that my blogger buddies is nodding her head in agreement, Like she knows first hand. So now I am really dumb founded cause at first you think that this guys is just talking shit but now I was getting confirmation! They even agree that he is so skilled he cause my blogger buddies to pass out!!!! Not nod out , PASS out!

A little scary if you ask me.

I myself don’t like pain with my pleasure, that’s not to say that I don’t have a little freak in me but my freak is tame in comparison to some.

So what are you feelings on S&M?

Monday, March 27, 2006 

The Weekend- WHY

Me a liquor just don’t mix. I had about 5 drinks and It was all good until the next day, I felt like I was still drunk! I don’t like the way that feels so I think I am going to take a break from the “Forbidden fruit” called Alcohol.

Hanging with the bloggers was awesome as usual. We drank, we laughed. We shook our asses on the dance floor! A good time was had by all.

Why, why , why were these chicks at the lounge scamming on my girls? HELLO! We don’t get down like that, keep that shit over there.

Why didn’t we order any food at the lounge?

Why did Nicky and I (and our Husbands) wait an hour or so to eat at RED LOBSTER? Why did I have the apple pie? I need to hit the gym.

Why is build-a-bear so dam cute? I think I am going to take the girls back in a couple of weeks.

My brain is on pause today so you’ll get a real post tomorrow.

Happy Monday!

Thursday, March 23, 2006 

A MEME :-)

The Sex Chronicles

1. How old were you the first time? 16
2. Name of your first- Papo
3. Good or Bad? Bad
4. Name of the worst and why- Papo, first time nuf said.
5. Name of the Best and why- Angel, I love the way he handles me
6. Weirdest place you ever had sex? In a basement
7. Favorite position? On top, I Like to be in control
8. Ever fake and Orgasm? Yes
9. Would you admit it if the person asked? NO
10. Favorite time of day to have sex?In the morning. I like to start my day with a bang!
11. Most times you have had sex in one day? 3
12. Same person? YES
13. Ever fantasize about someone other than the one your with? Yes
14. Restrictions during sex? Not many
15. Accessories? Yes
16. What? Whipped Cream, Ice etc…..
17. Done it in the rain? I wish. That’s one I’ve always wantted to do
18. Done it in a car? Yes
19. Had a Threesome? NO
20. Want to have sex now? Im thinking about it. LOL

I tag everyone on my bloggroll..... dont be shy. LOL

Monday, March 20, 2006 


When is a lie considered a Lie? If you tell me the sky is green and I let you believe that the sky is in fact green is that a lie?

See this is the grey area of lying. If you tell me your going to the movies and something happens to where you don’t go to the movies, but then I mention the movie and you talk to me like you’ve seen it is that a lie? Could it be that you just don’t want to make me feel bad so you let me think what Iwant to think? NO

It’s a lie!!!! It’s a lie by omission but its still a lie!

So which is worse. The out right “ I told you I was at the movies and I wasn’t” Lie or the “you thought I was at the movies so I let you believe that” Lie?

Now, Im sure we’ve all told a “white lie” every now and then but when your caught in the lie don’t you think its time to fess up? Or do you make that worse by adding another lie? When someone lies to you do you blow it off or do you now wonder if everything they say is a lie?

Thursday, March 16, 2006 

Two truths and a LIE- UPDATE

1. I stalked my husband a year before we started dating.

True, I saw my husband at a party a year before I ever spoke to him and I would keep track of when ever he came to my block cause of the licenses plate of his car. We had mutual friends so I would find out where he was going to be hanging that night and make it a point to be there.

2. I was a phone sex operator a few years back to make extra money.

Lie, I don’t give good Phone Sex so I don’t think I could make any money off it

3. I wont have sex on religious holidays

True, I feel funny. Like the 1 major for me would be Good Friday. I just can’t get my freak on when I think off what Jesus went through for my sins. I know it sounds crazy but I cant do it.

Thanks for Playing Two truths and a LIE!!!

Wednesday, March 15, 2006 

Guess, Two truths and a lie

I stole this from Will

1. I stalked my husband a year before we started dating.
2. I was a phone sex operator a few years back to make extra money.
3. I wont have sex on religious holidays

Whats true and whats the lie?

Monday, March 13, 2006 

Another Baby?????

When did my uterus become everybody’s business? I truly believe that the rudest question that anyone when has asked me is when they hear that I have 3 kids, the first thing that comes out of their mouths is “ your not having any more right?” WHF????

When did the issues of my having kids become YOUR problem????? I could see if I lived off the government (not that there’s anything wrong with that) or I was contently asking people to baby sit (the only person that’s every really help with the kids Is my MOM) Or I didn’t take care of my kids but that’s not the case. I bust my ass with my kids. I may not be able to give them everything that they want but I make they get everything they NEED even if I have to go with out!!!!

Now I’m not gonna lie I have tossed the idea of having another child back and forth and I Haven’t, I repeat haven’t made up my mind but whether or not I decided to have a baby that’s between me and my Husband!

Has this ever happened to you?

What do you think about this?

Thursday, March 09, 2006 

Solo? why not!

  • Thykness
  • suggested I do a post on what I like to call “solo sex”. Most people do it but not every one will admit, to it but why not? Who knows your body better than you? There is nothing wrong with masturbation. Sometimes you need to get yours off and there’s not man/women in the picture so you got to take care of yourself. Nowadays you can find so many “accessories” to help you along. LOL. I for one suggest women invest in the “rabbit” vibrator. This is almost better than the real thing cause afterwards you don’t have to make it breakfast!You just put that bad boy back in the nightstand for future use. LOL. Is it considered sex? I’m going to say no cause I think sex goes on between 2 people, but hell if it don’t feel just ass good!

    So people lets keep it real, how many of you Masturbate?

    Accessories: Yes or no and Why?

    Tuesday, March 07, 2006 

    Sex Again?

    Yes, this seems to be my favorite subject lately. I was watching a rerun of Martin and it’s the episode where Martin and Gina agree to go with out sex for two weeks. The episode is hilarious by the way but on to today’s topic

    How long can you go with out sex? I mean in a relationship (if your alone and sex isn’t readily available that don’t count) I can honestly say that sex has been on my mind for a while now but I have now problem putting on the breaks, so much so that I have been accused of “practicing to be a nun”. Now I don’t know if it’s a man vs. woman thing but I think women can hold out longer then men. I have know scientific proof of this but when my man goes without for a long time (to him anything longer than a few days) he is all kinds of cranky that everything seems to bother him. LOL

    So how long can you go with out SEX?

    Thursday, March 02, 2006 

    OUCH!!!!!...... Circumcision

    This may be a sensitive issue for you men but I’m a little curious. How many of you are circumcised? I know this is an awkward topic but my friend’s man had this done yesterday and he is 25! I just wondered if your not already “cut” why do it now? I’m sure that there may be issues (
    some guys don’t take care of them selves) but to go get it done now… scary.

    I wonder

    Does it feel different for them after the fact?

    What is the difference as far as the women? Can you tell the difference between one that’s “cut” and one that's not? Do you have a preference?

    Would you have your son circumcised?

    I knowthis is weird but my friend brought it up and I thought I'd share it with my fellow bloggers