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Monday, July 31, 2006 

Sex Addiction?

This topic is brought to you today by the Letter G as in GREEDY!

This all came about because of a conversation with my husband about Cheating. WE went back and forth about the reasons people cheat and for the most part we can agree on the following





1. Not getting the emotional needs met at home

2. Not getting the physical needs at home

3. A combination of the two

4. Or cause you know you wont get caught




Now that was all fine and dandy but then he tried the whole “sex addiction” excuse…ala Eric Benet… oh hell no! I don’t care what people say I don’t by the whole sex addict thing. I think your just GREEDY!!!! If in fact sex is your drug and you have a beautiful woman like Halle Berry at home why aren’t you trying to jump her bones every chance you get… NOOO! You had to go outside to fill that addiction. PLEASE! Sell that shit some where else cause I ain’t buying it.



I’m sure that there are people out there that will claim to have a sex addiction and sadly some may really believe this but I feel for the most part people are trying to use this as yet another excuse to cheat and trying to gain sympathy by attaching a “medical condition” to it. I may be wrong ,but hey it’s my blog. LOL





So what to you think of the whole “ sex addiction” thing?

I definitely agree with the needs being met at home...it starts at home.. If I was married and one of my wife's needs is to be tickled with a feather twice a day and I am not doing it best believe I am not going to get my need (of sex 4 times a day) met. These are fictional needs of course..but you have to take care of home to have home take care of you.

Hold the @!@#$ up!!!!! Do not go and put Halle Berry on a pedistal and act like she's not human. What makes her above being cheated on. Hell, if I remember correctly, Eric Benet was not Halle's FIRST Husband. Granted, I'll agree that Halle is fine, but if she was a workaholic and didn't have time to satisfy Eric physically, then she fits into one of the categories that you listed. Maybe she doesn't have a high sex drive. Maybe she's just not good in bed. I'm not making excuses for Halle, and damn sure not justifying what Eric did, but you have to look at that situation from another angle.

@Organized-I don't think MSNHIM was making excuses for Halle Berry, I think she was just saying not to attach a medical condition to the fact that Eric Benet is not jumping Halley's bones. She is saying: Just admit that he is being greedy and not stricken by sime clinical condition such as stupid "sex addiction"..lol

Big L

Thank you Big L. I thought me and Organized were gonna have to take this to the street! LOL

ok I defiently agree with you that people are often using it as an excuse when they cheat. HOWEVER, i do believe there are sex addicts. But i don't think they are really just addicted to the "sex" part. For many of the people who constantly cheat i do think it could be some type of addiction caused by a low self esteem and for whatever reason they have connected sex and being desired by as many people as possiable as being worth something. I think anything and everything can be addictive. Stuff thats good for you and stuff thats bad for you.

Hello Bloggers,

Yes there are many who would not consider be a person who loves sex the way Eric Benet did as a sex addict. But guess what they do exist. not by the hundreds but by the thousandsand then some. Think abt it if you like cocaine or any drug and you use for other purposes than medicinal you can be considered an addict. Greed has nothing to do with it. these people risk losing ther jobs families etc etc etc,etc. I've seen many and see them to now. look up the word addicted and see what it says. most people assume drugs but there other tempatations that are just as lethal. most sex addicts have sex not for pleasure purposes but for just to stay on high. they are caught up in the act and the feeling not the love and intimacy behind sex. So Msnhim this real. Look at kirk franklin: he was addicted to porno. micheal douglass aka sex addicted he was not acting either. there tons af people that deal with this problem. even female. some SAD=Sex addicts have sex 30 40 times a day. incredible but true. prostitutes lovers friends etc. there is difference btwn a SAD and a person with a high sex drive. usually the high sex drive may not go outside the realtionship (depending on the person)but most importnatly they are fulfilled at some point a SAD individual reaches that point an is ready in minutes almost like not getting high enough on a drug. well I hope tghis helps. any question please ask me. by the way u may be suprise what a person can be addicted too? so your hubby may be right but it depends on the person. There are some people who use this as way to have more sex but it will eventually catch up to them just like it does with a real addict.

Sidebar: Just a sixth sense I get. Even though Halle Berry is pretty, I don't pick up this lover of sexuality. I even suspect she's relatively frigid.

But that's my opinion.

BIG UPS to organized noise.

I do not believe you can be addicted to sex. I think the issue that you are AVOIDING when you are ADDICTED to ANYTHING is what you need to resolve, to heal yourself from the avenue you have turned to to quench your thirst.

As for the sex addict thing, anything starts out like that turns unmanageable. First you control it - Then it controls you. That came from Ted Bundy the night before he was executed.

@ Big L . . . if Halle Berry is a freak in the bed, then I'll take back everything I said. At the same time, Eric must have had something wrong with him, to have two women in the bed that he shares with Halle while wearing her lingerie. That's just sick.

@ MsNHim . . . I'm not scared of you. ;-)

I believe that sex addiction is a valid disorder. However, a guy who fucks a lot of hoes can't just label himself "a sex addict" and try to absolve himself of his bullshit. A true sex addict is addicted to porn, masturbation and literally cannot function in their daily life without some sort of sexual release. Their addiction (like drug addicts or alcholics) probably dominates their lives and they lack self control in a major way.

Sex addiction? Two words sum my thoughts on that "Bull" and "Shit"

Sex addiction..I think people can be addicted to the feeling of euphoria (spell check lol) that an orgasm or the anticipation that it brings or images that make you feel that way, but if that's the case work on what's at home and you can get it when you want lol....people use it as an excuse i.e. Eric Benet..I mean look at Halle ok she might be a lil prude in the bedroom but if he's her husband and he was giving it to her like she needed it then she might not be a prude

Man...what is it with YOU and SEX?? HAHHAHAHA

Hello again bloggers. all of your comments are great but many sound personal toward him. Forget eric benet for a minute and listen to a licensed medical profesional. This is a real disease. In the case of E. Benet who knows. but its more than just an orgasm for these people. they can literally have sex severally times a day. not a day of love making with your partner because u decided to skip work. 30/40 times a day may be more just imagine u being a crack addicted the addication is so strong that u will do what u have to do. this is real disease and men and women who cheat on the signifacant other just beacuse they are horny is dead wrong and i am not condoning this for the sex addicted either but what can happen may be worst like sti(sexually transmitted infection) or HIV. and remember condoms do not protect against all sti's. until later Goodnite

My wife is gorgeous and would do anything for me that I wanted. Still, I find it nearly impossible to resist sex from other women that I know I could have. Is that sex addiction or just a pathetic need for attention?

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