My weapon of choice.... SEX
There are not many things I can do to really piss my man off… He is very mellow and not easily bothered by most things but when I really want to pissed him off and get my way I withhold sex. Now as much as I like sex I have been called a Nun in training for my ability to go long periods of time with out it. Its not something I do all the time but when I really want him to see just how angry I am I do things that get him excited ( like sleeping with no panties) then I tell him I’m not in the mood. Is it wrong?Maybe, but after 13 years together he still caves every time.
So what’s you weapon of choice to get your way?
So what’s you weapon of choice to get your way?
ROFLMAO
Posted by
Anonymous |
12:22 PM
Well.
I am working on this, because I now know that guys don't respond to this, but I give the silent treatment.
The silent treatment is not intentional. I usually internalize many things, and then by the time I'm super duper pissed, then I'm seething, and he doesn't know i'm about to explode. When that happens, it only makes matters worse.
I've found that asking guys open ended questions usually resolves and solves the problem.
Closed ended: You made me mad, you know that, right?
Open Ended: I was really hurt when you said you didn't want to come to the fair with me. Why didn't you come?
Posted by
P |
12:29 PM
Just dropping by and takin notes.
Posted by
Organized Noise |
8:55 PM
and it always behoves (i know i killed that word) me...that woman withold sex knowing they enjoy sex as the next guy...
Posted by
The Sarccastik Variable Why |
2:17 PM
Wow, that is bad! I found that when I was upset I really wouldn't want to have sex, so it wasn't witholding in my mind, it was that he had been a jerk and when he acted that way I had no desire to be with him.
I can't help but think ahead 40 years and you pass away that your hubby would look back, knowing exactly what you were doing and laugh a bit and think of how much he would miss having you around to play silly games.
Posted by
Deb |
12:07 PM
That is so not nice. You should be ashamed.
Posted by
Anonymous |
12:13 AM
well i use lots of weapons, not cooking, not laughing at his jokes, and yes the withholding of sex..every once in awhile. BUT unfortuently nothing really works with my hubs. I also don't stay mad for very long. I try but i just can't keep it up.
Posted by
Anonymous |
12:53 PM
Everyone has their own means of vindication..But I strongly reccomend not to withold the goodies if at all possible..especially is this is relationship that you value and definitley for mo more than a week. One of my favorite sayings is "I can show you better that I can tell you" with that said.. withold if you want to...the mind of man is weak as is his flesh.
Posted by
1InTheSame |
11:13 AM
Hello Ms Him,
I understand many many women do this to men but remember if he does not get it from u he can get it somewhere else. crazy but true so be careful in the things u do>
Posted by
Anonymous |
4:51 PM
I withhold sex too..lol
Posted by
MZPEACH |
4:53 PM
Silence.
I won't even look at the person if they are talking...just walk away as if no one was there.
*one day I fear I'mma catch a shoe to the back of my head*
Posted by
Blah Blah Blah |
12:33 PM